My FULL part-time job!

May 31, 2010


As Mrs. New Jersey International 2010, I am simply tickled pink to have the opportunity to share my passion of the Make-A-Wish Foundation with the country.  I continue to embark on this joyous year by supporting all the facets of my personal life and my pageantry life together, which I approach as none other.  I refer to my title as "my FULL part-time job" in order to ensure that everyone I meet can see how passionate I am for them and that they can truly become aware of these organizations.  The Mrs. International Organization, the American Heart Association's Go Red for Women movement, as well as the Make-A-Wish Foundation are three truly fascinating, inspiring, motivating and encouraging organizations that synergistically support life at its best.

Your generous support of these three facets of my life continue to touch my heart.  Please don't stop!  Please continue to show your support for these them, as without YOU they would not be in existence today.  Thank you for all your help!

http://www.mrsinternational.com
http://www.americanheart.org
http://www.wish.org

All my love,

Walt Disney World and Make-A-Wish!

May 26, 2010


Even if you have never been to Walt Disney World, everyone has at least heard of the world's largest and most visited resort.  When the Magic Kingdom opened in 1971 little did anyone think (I'm sure they hoped) that "The Most Magical Place on Earth" would become one of the most iconic and symbolistic names in history.

What is the most popular wish destination for Make-A-Wish kids?  You guessed it: Walt Disney World! The Walt Disney Company has a long-standing relationship with the Make-A-Wish Foundation and has granted more than 75,000 wishes since its partnership began.  Thanks to Disney’s support of the Make-A-Wish Foundation, wish families enjoy tickets to Walt Disney World, special visits from Disney characters and many other magical surprises.  One very special relationship in the Walt Disney World area is "Give Kids The World".  GKTW is its own little village where most of the MAW kids and their families stay during their vacation.  It is a non-profit organization that exists only to fulfill the wishes of all children with life-threatening illnesses from around the world and to allow them to experience a memorable, joyful, cost-free visit to Walt Disney World and other Central Florida attractions.  Over 100,000 children have had their dreams come true at Give Kids The World.  No child in need has ever been turned away – and no child ever will.  Give Kids The World is a place where families find joy, laughter, serenity, and a lifetime of memories.  Through the tireless support of  volunteers, employees and generous partners, they dedicate each and every day to these special families.

As a Wish Granter, I simply never know what my next wish child is going to wish for, but I can tell you that Walt Disney World is by far in the lead for the most requested wish that I have personally helped MAW grant.  Take, for instance, little 4-year-old Emily, who greeted me at the door when I arrived to grant her wish wearing a Cinderella princess dress and a crown.  She said she wanted to visit the iconic Cinderella Castle with her parents and grandparents.  Emily's wish came true!  She had her very own suite at Give Kids the World Village, she had a special lunch with Cinderella and enjoyed an unforgettable dinner with Prince Charming.  And Emily even played the part just right by kicking off her shoe so the prince could put it back on her foot.  How unbelievably CUTE!  After her vacation Emily's mom wrote a note saying, “Truly, the Make-A-Wish Foundation helped us all reclaim our lives before Emily was diagnosed, even if it was for a week – a week which we all needed desperately.”

Thank you to the Walt Disney World Company, Give Kids The World, and the Make-A-Wish Foundation for giving Emily the MAGICAL power of a princess wish she could call her very own!

What do I have in common with Bret Michaels?

May 24, 2010

Well I never thought I would have anything in common with the newest winner of 'Celebrity Apprentice', Bret Michaels.  Most likely all of us have been following him in the news lately due to a myrid of medical problems that have landed him in the hospital on quite a few occassions.  First being a brain hemorrhage that left him clinging to life.  Second being a transient ischemic attack (TIA) or warning stroke, along with revealing that he has a hole in his heart.  Just like Bret, I too have suffered a transient ischemic attack, however not only did I have one, but I had two!

For those who are unfamiliar with TIA's, allow me to give you a very brief education about them..... a TIA is caused by the temporary disturbance of blood supply to an area of the brain, which results in a sudden, brief decrease in brain function. (A decrease in brain function is called a neurologic deficit.)  A TIA is different than a small stroke. The symptoms of TIA's do not last as long as a stroke and do not show changes on a CT or MRI scans. (Small strokes do show changes on such tests.)  A TIA is often considered a warning sign that a true stroke may happen in the future if something is not done to prevent it.  Symptoms begin suddenly, last only a short time (from a few minutes to 24 hours), and disappear completely.  They may occur again at a later time.  Symptoms usually occur on the same side of the body if more than one body part is involved.

My TIA's were due to my lupus and both occurred on the left side of my body.  As a result my left face cheek and my left toes are now numb and tingling.  Both of my TIA's occurred at work sitting at my desk.  There were no warning signs nor did I know what was happening when they were occurring.

Bret Michaels and myself are/could be no different than you!  If you suddenly experience any of the following symptoms, it is extremely important that you call 911 and seek medical help immediately. 

Muscle weakness of the face, arm, or leg (usually only on one side of the body)
Numbness or tingling on one side of the body
Trouble speaking or understanding others who are speaking
Problems with eyesight (double vision, loss of all or part of vision)
Changes in sensation, involving touch, pain, temperature, pressure, hearing, taste
Change in alertness (sleepiness, less responsive, unconscious, or coma)
Personality, mood, or emotional changes
Confusion or loss of memory
Difficulty swallowing
Difficulty writing or reading
Lack of coordination and balance, clumsiness, or trouble walking
Abnormal sensation of movement (vertigo) or dizziness
Lack of control over the bladder or bowels
Inability to recognize or identify sensory stimuli

With stroke being the #3 cause of death in the United States, it's very important that you treat a TIA as a warning of something much bigger to possibly come.  Please visit the American Heart Assocation website to learn more about what you can do if you or a loved one suddenly experiences a TIA.  Don't wait, learn about it NOW!

Flowers and Bees in GIVERNEY!


As the flowers and trees are blooming in all their glory, Springtime takes me back to a time 2 years ago when Tom and I took an incredible tour around England and France with my amazing Mom.  One of our stops was to Giverney, France.

Virtually all of us have seen the beautiful watercolor's of the ever famous Claude Monet.  Seeing his beautiful gardens and his house in person gave me the sense of realization that beautiful places on earth really do exist.

This photo I took myself with my own camera.  Monet's water lily paintings are amongst his more well known of all.  This water lily was in full-bloom and sitting on its lilypad saying "Look at me!"  Although myphoto doesn't do it justice, it was beautiful in person!


Here is a collage of gorgeous flowers that I took photos of all through Monet's gardens.  There were rows and rows of beautiful flowers blooming everywhere. 

Yummy Recipe for Health!


RAINBOW FRUIT SALAD


With Memorial Day right around the corner, here's a heart healthy recipe everyone in your family can help make.  This delicious, colorful and healthy salad can be the perfect accompaniment to your holiday table.  Have the little ones peel bananas and pick grapes while you slice and dice!

Salad ingredients:
  • 1 large mango, peeled and diced
  • 2 cups fresh blueberries
  • 2 bananas, sliced
  • 2 cups fresh strawberries, halved
  • 2 cups seedless grapes
  • 2 nectarines, unpeeled and sliced
  • 1 kiwi fruit, peeled and sliced
Honey-Orange sauce ingredients:
  • 1/3 cup unsweetened orange juice
  • 2 tbsp. lemon juice
  • 1 tbsp. honey
  • 1 tsp. ground ginger
  • Dash of nutmeg
Directions:
  1. Prepare and combine the fruit.
  2. In a separate bowl, combine all the ingredients for the sauce and mix.
  3. Just before serving, pour the sauce over the fruit.
YUM-O!  Enjoy!

Yield: 12 servings
Nutrition Facts: Serving Size 4 oz, Calories 96, Total Fat 1 g, Cholesterol 0 mg, Sodium 4 mg
Source: National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute/National Institutes of Health

Heart Attack Signs!

May 12, 2010

Can you name the signs of a heart attack?

I couldn't before having TWO TIA'S (transient ischemic attacks or "mini-strokes")!!!

Some heart attacks come on strong, cause crushing chest pain, and leave little room for doubt.  But others build slowly and can be mistaken for different problems.  Getting treatment within an hour of a heart attack boosts your odds of surviving.  That's why it's important to know those signs before an attack.

STEP ONE:  KNOW THE SIGNS
Chest pain is the most common and well-known sign of a heart attack.  The discomfort might feel like pressure, squeezing, or fullness.  It usually starts in the center of the chest and may last awhile, or go away and come back.

Other common symptoms include:
  • Pain or discomfort in other parts of the body.  This could include your jaw, neck, back, stomach, and one or both arms.
  • Shortness of breath.  You may get this along with chest discomfort, or just by itself.
  • Nausea and vomiting, feeling fatigued or light-headed, or fainting.
  • Breaking out in a cold sweat.
  • Chest pain is common among women as well as men.  But women are more likely than men to have some of the other symptoms of heart attack listed, particularly shortness of breath, nausea and vomiting, and back or jaw pain.
STEP TWO:  GET HELP
If you have these signs, or think you might be having a heart attack, call 911 immediately.

Let's Get Baking for Make-A-Wish!

May 10, 2010

If you're anything like me you love to eat!  Sweets are particularly my down fall!  Especially freshly baked chocolate chip cookies!  Yum-O!  Well, if you have some baking to do please be sure to purchase items from Betty Crocker.  "Stirring Up Wishes" is a Betty Crocker multi-year cause-marketing program with the Make-A-Wish Foundation to help grant the wishes of children with life-threatening medical conditions and bring hope, strength and joy to their lives.

This year, Betty Crocker is Stirring Up Wishes for wish kids, and we can ALL help to raise up to $500,000 to help grant wishes. Just look for specially marked Betty Crocker products in your grocery store and for every specially marked product purchased, Betty Crocker will donate 10¢ to the Make-A-Wish Foundation, with a guaranteed minimum donation of $250,000 and a maximum donation of $500,000.

So let's get baking, gang!!

Inspiration

May 9, 2010

Hey'all, be sure to hop on over to my INSPIRATION page.  I just updated it with some inspiring information.  If you ever have any comments to make, be sure to send me a message on Facebook or a personal email.  I would love to hear from you!

Crowning Miss Teen New Jersey International

May 8, 2010

Today "Team New Jersey International" became complete!  Beautiful Sara Reidy was crowned today as the new Miss Teen New Jersey International 2010!  Brielle LaCosta (Miss NJ International) and I (Mrs. NJ International) were on hand to officially crown her at her beautiful home in Princeton, NJ.  Jodi and Scott Cessna, our directors, have their NJ Cessna Bunch all complete now, and we all couldn't be happier.  Sara and her family are simply lovely and I know that Sara is going to have an incredible year ahead of her.  Congratulations, Sara!  Welcome to the family!!

For more information on how YOU can compete to become the next Mrs., Miss or Teen New Jersey International, please visit the website for more information.  Please click here to visit the national website to learn all about the wonderful International Pageants, Inc.


Make-A-Wish Hall of Fame

May 3, 2010

Because celebrities are able to reach so many people throughout the course of their stardom, they are a big part of many of the wishes the MAW Foundation grants.  As I have witnessed first hand, often being a part of the wish experience is almost as moving for the celebrity as it is for the child.  Take Beyonce, for instance.  She recently granted 12-year-old Zykia's wish from the Florida Chapter of MAW.  For one night Zykia was able to put aside hospital visits and doctor examinations to be front and center at Beyonce's concert.  Just having been driven in a stretch limo to the arena, Zykia was ushered to a special area for a meet and greet with Beyonce that started out with a HUGE hug from her idol.  After spending some good amount of quality time with her, Zykia took her front row seat to enjoy the actual show.  Arriving back home in the limo was surely the icing on the cake to what was an INCREDIBLE night for Zykia!

Beyonce is only one out of MANY celebrities who offer their time to grant wishes to children.  The list includes:

Bruce Springsteen
John Cena
Jeff Gordon
The Jonas Brothers
Mariah Carey
"The Office" cast
and the list goes on and on!

To find out how YOU can grant wishes, please visit www.wish.org TODAY!

World Wish Day

April 29, 2010

Today is WORLD WISH DAY!

As the end of World Wish Day draws to a close I was just made aware that more than 175 wishes came true today to children with life-threatening illnesses!  David Williams, President & CEO of MAW, declared that through the development of the Foundation back in 1980 from one little boy's dream of becoming a police officer, today's world wish activities have sparked even greater enthusiasm and involvement in the Foundation.

Let's continue to share the power of a wish all year long.  Refer a child, make a donation, spread the world.  To donate to World Wish Day, please click here!

Thank you for helping to make wishes come true!

Our Hearts, Our Choice!

April 28, 2010

Heart disease is the #1 killer in women!  Have you checked your blood pressure lately?  Do you know what your numbers are?  When was the last time you listened to your heart and slowed down?  When was the last time you exercised?  Heart disease is a silent killer.  Be empowered by learning the signs and symptoms of a heart attack or stroke.

I didn't know the symptoms even when I was having my TIA's.  They hit me out of the blue!  Sitting at my desk at work!  Doing my job!  A few hours later I found myself laying in the Stroke Unit at Thomas Jefferson Hospital in Philadelphia.  Today I have numbness in my left face and my left toes.  I monitor my blood pressure and try to keep myself healthy (despite my love of sweets!).

Don't let yourself be a statistic.  Listen to what your heart is telling you!
Our Hearts, Our Choice!
Be sure to visit the American Heart Association website to find a local Chapter near you.  www.AmericanHeart.org

Dishes for Wishes 2010

April 27, 2010



This is the day that the Make-A-Wish Foundation of NJ and I have been waiting on for a long time now.  The 7th Annual Dishes for Wishes 2010 event!!  It was held this evening at the DoubleTree Hotel in Mt. Laurel, NJ and was a great success!  I can't thank everyone enough for all your help and dedication to making sure this event went off without a hitch.  The committee and I have worked very hard to make sure that once again it was a raving success.  Granted the poor economy reared its ugly face by lowering our turn-out numbers, but we still hit a home run in raising money for wishes to come true.  This is the MAWFNJ's second biggest fundraiser of the year.  And since this is the 7th year we have held this event, we are so extremely fortunate to our sponsors, our patrons, our volunteers, our staff, and everyone who worked tirelessly to make it come together.

A big shout-out to the Mrs. New Jersey United States Organization!  I developed the relationship between the two organizations back in 2007 and to this day it still lives on.  The reigning Mrs. NJ US, Ceylone Booth-Grooms, and 3 contestants competing for her title in May (Susan Davis, Shanna Edwards and Andrea Graham) participated as Celebrity Servers and were SUCH a big hit!  Thanks again, ladies, for attending and helping to serve some of the tastiest food in the local area!

The Foundation was honored to have one of their former wish kids attend with her family.  It is just so inspiring to hear the words of thanks from the parents of wish kids.  More times than none there isn't a dry eye in the crowd when they are saying thank you for allowing their child's dream to come true.  That's why I do what I do with the Foundation.  That's why I continue to grant wishes to children fighting the battle of their lives.  For any parent who has had a sick child, you understand how hard it is to watch your child struggle through their illness.  The common cold is one thing, but cancer is something altogether different.  Life-threatening illnesses truly hit home when it happens to your very own child.  The MAWFNJ can't grant wishes without the support of its volunteers, sponsors, donations and gifts.  Please help me to support the Chapter here in New Jersey.  If you're not in NJ, please kindly consider supporting the Chapter in your state.  Visit www.wish.org to find a Chapter near you.

Thank you to everyone who helped at this wonderful event and to everyone who continues to support the Foundation so that children have the chance to dream big!